How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
Spending your life worrying what others think of you is exhausting and not so beneficial, as we all have figured that out at least once. We should never live life based of off the idea that "if I do things this way or act other wise, people will like or think of me better". It's not pleasant nor is it healthy to have that sort of mindset and it shows other people have control over your life and self worth.
We all came to earth to fulfill a certain purpose. We know that this life of ours will not continue to live on forever and in our hearts, we will always only be truly happy and fulfilled if we can do whatever it is that we love to do. Therefore, live the life you want instead of what someone else wants for you and live your truest purpose.
We are all very unique in many different ways, that's what in a way separates us from one another. We are meant to be different, since we are all meant to be and do different things in life. Only you know why you do things the way you do, why you don't do certain things, why you like specific things, why you don't etc, but people often like to judge. We must always remain true to ourselves and be strong enough to stand up for what we believe in. Always stand by yourself and never let people get to you because of their perception of you or reality.
This is your life, this is your reality. You choose how your reality goes and will flow. It's you who deals with everything in your life, with the bad, the good and the consequences. Always take responsibility and out of your mistakes you shall learn. Sometimes you have to fall a hundred times until you're there, but that's okay, because it's the only way you can get there; by trusting and believing in yourself, by staying committed and by not letting others influence you in a way that doesn't serve.
You are not here to entertain people's lives or to live someone else's dream. You are here to live the life that you want, your truest purpose. If you don't listen to your heart, you will always stop yourself from going after your dreams and living them.
When you don't care what other people think of you, it shows that you know that you are confident, strong and willing enough to know and do what is best for you. They don't know what is best for you. Only you know what is best for you. Everyone is actually in their own bubble of reality with their own perceptions, but no one can actually know you better than you do. So listen to people when they give you advice, but leave the choice within your own hands and most of all, listen to your heart. What do you want? In the end, you should always care more about what you think.
If you would take someone else's advice or do something for someone else, but feel miserable about it, you will ultimately regret not stepping up for yourself. You will regret not doing what you wanted to do and therefore miss opportunities. Do something because it makes you feel good, not someone else.
If you for example want to start something new like a business and people are telling you "don't do it", if you know within yourself that this is really what you want to do and that you will do everything in your power to get where you want to be, then don't listen to what others think about your goal. Follow your inner voice, because it knows your truest heart's desires.
You know other people are just other people, like you and me. It is exactly that limiting belief from the people that tell you not to do it, that you can create as a limiting belief for yourself, if you don't change the way you think and view things. What might not work for them, might work for you, or the other way around. Every one of us is completely different, even though at a much deeper level we are all connected. We all have different interests, charasteristics, values which only you know yours best when it comes to you.
Know that people's opinion is based on who they are, their previous and personal experiences and what they would do. But what one might see as something terrible, could be great for someone else. People also change their mind quite often, because they are also just human. What one might think and believe at one moment, is often not exactly the same in the longer run.
It is only when you do what you love and when you do it for yourself and not to please other people, that you can feel and experience true happiness. Because you are in alignment with who you are.