How To Evoke Your Inner Confidence
Let’s face it, confident people are attractive people; they’re charming, often good with words, tend to be great at handling social occasions, and are very often perceived as sexy individuals. It’s a great personality trait to have, and luckily it’s a skill that every person is able to greater develop. You can invoke your inner confidence with a few simple tricks that will make you stand out and will make people remember who you are. Because when you’re sure of who you are, people are too. That’s what it’s all about when it comes to confidence.
Become sure of yourself
If you’re lacking confidence in one way or another, it almost always impacts your life on a certain level and often also the relationships you have with other people. That’s why insecurity is often one of the root causes of many problems, especially in modern romantic relationships. But no matter what that insecurity may be about, you can overcome it and become more confident. Just as long as you’re willing to choose to not be that former self who had those insecurities, in the present and future tense. Confidence takes time to build, until it grows stronger and stronger over time. Just like they don’t build a car or a boat within a time span of one week or so, either. You get better at it as time goes on and as you practice becoming a new, better you. To become sure of yourself, remind yourself to keep thinking of the following things;
- You are worthy
- You are powerful
- You are strong
You are worthy, because you simply are alive. Because you’re born on this planet, living in this universe, you are worthy. Why wouldn’t you be, anyway? Being born with or without something someone else has or lacks, doesn’t make you less or more worthy. We’re all the same, just experiencing different realities, based on our own unique perception. If you’re here living and breathing, it means you’re alive, and that simply means that you’re worthy of living your best life possible. Don’t question your sense of worth, for that the reason that you’re here holds a purpose. You are powerful, because you can create nearly anything working along with the energies of the Universe, by the use of God, that is your own powerful imagination. And because of all of that, you are powerful. More powerful than you can probably fathom to accept as being the true sense of reality. But accept it and acknowledge it, because that is the truth of you.
Embrace your “imperfections”
You have to learn to embrace your imperfections, for that these so called “imperfections”, make you perfect. Everyone has a certain view on what’s perfect, but remember that we’ve come to view perfection a certain way because of what we’ve learned through the eyes of society. Embrace your imperfections – it’s often the very last thing someone struggling with something they’re deeply insecure about wants to hear. But it’s essential, to embrace and accept these flaws so that you can go past it and work on it. You can’t hate or blame yourself for not being perfect. There’s no use in that, since human beings weren’t meant to be born “perfect”, at least not according to what that means within social or societies' norms. The best thing you can do in order to be happy and not let insecurities ruin your life, is to recognize that they’re there and just tell yourself out loud “I accept you as you are and love you as you are”. Be kind to yourself, instead of trying to fight insecurities, find ways to work with them. A few ways to do that are:
- Affirm to yourself all the amazing attributes that you already possess
- Affirm to yourself the opposite of the things you would otherwise tell yourself causing you to feel insecure
- Regularly reflect back on times where you felt very confident and the way you handled those situations
- Surround yourself with people that make you feel comfortable and bring out confidence within you and avoid people who do the opposite
- Make time to enjoy yourself doing fun activities with the people you love and love you
- Do research on how you can turn your insecurities into your superpowers. Read related books and apply the tips recommended to you
- Embrace the awkward, make an effort to perceive things from a greater perspective. What you’ll often find, is that many times there’s still something good and grateful that comes out of it, when dealing with insecurities. When you learn to deal with it rather than fighting it, you’ll often find that they made you so much stronger than you initially once were before
Claim your new sexy you!
It really is as simple as that, you just have to claim to be the person you want to be. It’s nothing more but a decision, a decision you must stand by and choose in every second of your existing being. You decide that you are that person, despite if you can’t see it just yet or if others can’t see you that way yet. You already have everything within you to be who you wish to be. If it doesn’t appear that way, it’s because you haven’t activated that part of you, just yet. The higher self of yourself is mesmerizing, confident, charming, it’s all that. You just don’t have to confuse that self with the ego, who often tells us that we aren’t that already or that we can’t be that. You can and you are all of that, once you simply claim it and confidently walk along that path of least resistance. There’s no need to convince yourself of anything, you knów that deep within you there’s someone with a voice, someone that’s capable of being and exuding confidence. You are that person, because every single person has those capacities. It’s only a matter of believing that you can and claiming it. Once you claim that confidence and you evoke that power within your aura, there’s no stopping you. It will soon feel so natural and exciting that you just love yourself even more, and so your confidence keeps growing. All you have to do is to step into your god(dess) power and fully stand behind what you want for yourself, and let the magic happen. That goes for anything in life, but if you really want to evoke that confidence, then you must now start viewing yourself as the god(dess) that you are and sprinkle yourself with that (sexy) confidence. Love the old you and say “I love you” to that old self and then say goodbye, and fully embrace walking as the new you.